fix(observability,webhooks,i18n): timestamped logs, dedupe webhook retries, default non-de locales to English

- New custom server.js (replaces react-router-serve): ISO timestamps on
  all console.* output and on access logs, and skip successful /healthz
  polls so real traffic stays visible.
- New ProcessedWebhook table + dedupe helper keyed on
  X-Shopify-Webhook-Id; stops Shopify retries from triggering a second
  invoice email when the original delivery exceeded the 5s ack timeout.
- orders/create + orders/fulfilled now respond 200 immediately and run
  the PDF/email work in the background so we stay under that timeout.
- pickLanguage(): non-German locales (it, fr, es, ...) now default to
  English instead of falling back to German. Empty/unknown still maps to
  'de' so the per-shop defaultLanguage chain keeps working.
- Tests for pickLanguage and dedupe via node --test + tsx.

app/routes/webhooks.orders.updated.tsx

@@ -1,10 +1,13 @@
 import type { ActionFunctionArgs } from "react-router";
 import { authenticate } from "../shopify.server";
+import { isDuplicateWebhook } from "../services/webhooks/dedupe.server";
 
 // Acknowledged but not yet acted on. Future: invalidate cached invoice
 // snapshots when a relevant field on the order changes.
 export const action = async ({ request }: ActionFunctionArgs) => {
   const { shop, topic } = await authenticate.webhook(request);
   console.log(`Received ${topic} webhook for ${shop}`);
+  // Idempotency against Shopify retries — see webhooks/dedupe.server.ts.
+  if (await isDuplicateWebhook(request, shop, topic)) return new Response();
   return new Response();
 };